Make Your Own Motorcycle Stand

Paddock stands are the basic of all the bike stands yet some finds the contraption a bit tricky to work with. It requires one to be capable of doing two things at once i.e. keeping the bike upright as one slips the stand from the rear. Good thing there are good alternatives to paddock stands. One can choose from motorcycle jack or lift for sale or one may opt to build motorcycle stands from scratch.

Building Materials

If building a homemade motorcycle stand captures your fancy, then go ahead and do it. This garage project is easy and very doable. The basic stuffs needed are pipe bending tools and a welder. For the stand’s structure, the best material to use is a 2-inch heavy gauge steel pipe. This metal is fairly sturdy with high malleability. If that’s unavailable, a 2-inch channel bar will do. It is a square steel pipe mostly used to build shelves and gates. One will have to struggle a bit with this material as it requires more heat and more muscle strength to bend it. There are also designs that make use of cylindrical pipes and channel bars. One can also build a ramp or a stand using 2×6 wood boards.

Design

There are so many designs available on motorcycle jacks. One design for example can even support a ton load. It has a 3-feet rod handle bent at a diagonal against the surface and rises up from the center. The device is connected to a crossbar with stubby legs that will fit your bike from a slightly angled position. The crossbar is positioned underneath the bike parallel to the ground and when the handle is lifted, the crossbar slides forward lifting the bike up.

Another design resembles a V which is fixed onto a plate with a pivot bar. It is easy to use. One only needs to position the bike on the V figure. When the bike is pushed forward, the V locks into an upright position.

Fabrication

During the actual building process make sure that you are well-armed with metal bending tools.

First thing to do is mark the center of the bar then place the pipe into the bender so that the mark is centered. To bend the pipe, use a blow torch or a heat gun. For thicker bars or channel pipes, longer heating is required. The corners of channel bars however may bunch together which may make it weak. After bending, weld the corners of the bars with MIG or TIG to regain its strength. This skill requires practice. If one has no experience in welding, best advice is to learn welding first before doing any of the previously mentioned steps.

Optional Accessory

Since motorcycle stands are constantly under wear and tear, rubber caps on handle bars and legs help minimize the effects. Paints on the stand do not only add color but with an application of primer and an automotive paint prevents rusting.

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Technique of Watercolor Painting: WC07 PLANNING

Plan or not to Plan? The outcome of the painting will be vitally affected by the decision to either plan the work or starting head down without any idea how the painting will finish.

It is not a matter of preference but of personality. To a great extent the subject will decide the issue. A painting of a building – a design – a specific place – a record painting – a commissioned painting – will usually lead the painter into an approach where pre-planning naturally results.

In this type of work pre-planning will reduce errors and the target idea will more likely to be realized. Any measured work – enlarging – portraiture – anything technical – animal bird or plant illustrations – are usually best planned beforehand. Professional work to deadline is a pre-planning must.

In general where the subject of the painting has to conform to the requirements or standards of others or to a specified known standard for a fee by a certain date it is best to pre-plan.

In this context the painter will no doubt feel less creative but the painter must have the technique and professional approach to match demands.

This is especially true for the watercolor painter as reduced errors means fewer destructive demands on the paper ground and less repainting over previously washed out work. Please note that a professional buyer will approve the work by viewing it as it were dead – without glass – mount and frame.

Overpainting dulls the light reflecting back through the pigment. Without overpainting the work looks fresher and the craft of it looks easier and under greater control in your hands as a result to the painter’s credit.

There are probably three main valid approaches to painting in any medium!

PRE-PLANNED

MAINSTREAM

FREE CREATIVE

Each one of these is strictly valid in pure painting terms because the approach is determined by the nature of the project. The end dictates the way forward.

In passing it is wise to note that with watercolor painting on paper each painting should first be covered by a blue tint all over wash. This blue tint wash kills the red inherent in white watercolor paper. Even the whitest watercolor paper will be improved by this slight blue wash. The tint should be so light that it seems to be pointless doing it. Use a blue that has no red in it.

PRE-PLANNED

These paintings do not appear to be particularly creative – they are! This is a good way to acquire the essential geometry involved in transposing small images from one surface and enlarged onto to another. The process comes in handy too when paintings of imagination need a structure to bring them to fruition.

Planning is not only the best option for some types of painting but also perhaps the only option. Graphic works for publication on short time scales are the norm in the printing industry. These works have to be planned and even the way of achieving the desired result be decided in a flash. There is no waiting around for days mulling over the philosophy of the issue because others are waiting to make money out of the work you are commissioned to paint.

Often the idea of a painting changes during the work. If this happens too often more thought should be given before committing time an effort to your projects. Careful planning brings focus and therefore clarity to the final painting and this is conveyed unconsciously in the quality of the work.

For the general painter a coordinated grid method is used to transform a small image into an enlarged exact scale drawing to become a guide for a larger watercolor painting.

This system uses a very light pencil grid of convenient unit size drawn on the watercolor paper. The image ultimately to be painted on it is added in outline either by hand or ruled or both. This outline drawing provides an exact line where the different colors are to be applied as a wash or as a series of watercolor detail areas.

Soft pencil drawn grid lines when erased later will leave immovable smudge marks. Too hard a pencil will scribe into the paper surface and show up later as dark colored lines. It is best to use a very hard pencil frequently sharpened to a very fine point. Practice before starting the work.

The grid lines help to judge if the relationship between the features in the original image are matched on the larger drawing and is a correct to scale transfer. This must be assured before any watercolor is added otherwise it will be necessary to start the work again.

The size of the grid spaces drawn for the original image is determined by the complexity of the detail.

The vertical grid LINES are lettered across from the top left corner beginning at A and continued through the alphabet to the end of the top vertical grid line.

The first top horizontal grid line starts at the top left hand corner and is denoted 0. As the first vertical grid line too starts from the top left hand corner and it too is denoted A the top left hand corner of the grid is denoted by coordinates A0. From the top left corner the grid continues horizontally A0 B0 C0 D0 and so on. Vertically from the top left corner the grid down the left hand side is denoted A0 A1 A2 A3 and so on. Any point of the grid can now be defined by looking at its position in relation to the top and left hand sideline coordinates.

It is better and easier to make a square grid. This avoids errors in transfer. Also a square grid of whole numbers makes it easier to fix interpolations within the grid space.

Any straight or curved line or shape will be seen in relation to the allocated numbered and lettered coordinated gridlines.

The same grid to a larger scale is drawn on the watercolor paper ground to the larger size. If the original measurements and grid size have been carefully judged a simple increase to the new grid size from the original is all that needs to be done.

There is no need to draw all the gridlines – in sky areas for instance where there is no exact detail to be transferred only draw the position of the gridlines at the edge with their letters.

Remove the grid lines and unwanted marks from the paper with a putty rubber before painting. If the lines have been finely drawn on the paper surface they can be easily removed without damage to the paper.

The above method is ideal for painting a large picture from a small photograph. I use a thin piece of glass sheet over the photograph on which to draw a thin inked-in grid direct using a technical pen. To protect the ink from rubbing off apply back adhesive transparent film. This is like sheet grade invisible tape. Protect the edge of the glass with paper drafting tape. This is lipped over the face of the glass and back of the photo up to but not touching the grid lines on the face. The coordinates top and sides are marked in ink on the tape.

This method is ideal for Architectural building renderings and perspectives – still life – portraits – lots of mechanical drawing subjects such as cars – large paintings of birds. The preparatory outline work is part of the technique. It is not a necessary evil to be got through as quick as possible. It is an enjoyable part of the whole process.

MAINSTREAM

This general type of painting is based on a combination of feeling – reason and logic to inspire the painting. It is the way most painting is realized – a jumble of many things brought together with a subject finally emerging from unrelated ideas having titles added later to justify their political correctness.

Get to know the language and vocabulary of painting. This includes color balance – color temperatures and the various forms of perspective such as in the use of line tone and color. Paintings need to be subjected to intellectual checks during painting by assessing the balance of colored areas of the painting in percentage terms – of brightness – and average tonal value. Understand the meaning of balance between areas of the painting in terms of its effect as seen by the viewer at normal medium and close distance and in relation to the inner perspective construction of the work.

The avoidance of black and white is very important in watercolor painting but it is important too to know if and when the any rule can be broken. The tonal balance of areas of the painting is vital and how high and low tonal density of colors both warm and cool affects balance. Another issue is the use of color of plane surfaces when these appear both in and out of shade. Further it is useful to know how to direct the attention to the focal point of the picture by each aspect of technique. It is important too to know how to use a range of colors sympathetic to each other to avoid unwanted inexplicable tensions in the picture .All of these have to be automatically applied within a working discipline of Technique.

These disciplines are necessary to produce any type of painting. The medium of watercolor painting shows any deficiency in technique rather more than any other painting medium. Those whose technique is complete and dependable can ignore technique if by doing this they gain extra power in their work.

FREE CREATIVE

Free creative work allows its justification to emerge as it were by itself. Here the painter must break loose from ego to free the mind from its blocks and limitations for the painting to be ready to be painted by someone or something other than the painter. The picture flows into the painter and onto the ground from surrounding energies.

The best way to do this is to bring the mind to a point. Remember to relax – not to tense up or prejudge anything or anyone in any way. There should be no sense of what the painting is or should be about. Sense the moment. Mix the paint and let it flow as and where it will.

Paint whatever the energy in the arm guides you paint.

If you are really free and devoid of achieving or prejudging or critical of what you are doing you will be completely and utterly refreshed when you are through. Pure creation never tires or depresses but restores.

Paintings are truly finished after the Title Signature Date and Picture Sequence Number have been added.

My very best wishes.

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African Masks

The following is a general over view of African Masks.

There are still places in Africa where genuine old masks can be bought, generally through dealers. Also watch out for fakes as they do abound. Remember buy things you like as investment can go up as well as down. If you like that carving or mask then the value is not as important.

The African masks of this area are well documented by Ladislas Segy in Masks of Black Africa. Much of the following section on African Masks is influenced by his work.

The African masking traditions of this part of the World are extremely fertile and varied. The traditions supporting the masks are generally associated with the spirits of ancestors, rites of passage, fertility and initiation ceremonies. Dance is generally involved in the use of the masks. Segy lists the following types of ritual:-

Rituals of cosmology, myth and mythological heroes or animals

Fertility rites

Rituals for increase

Agricultural festivals

Rituals for rites of passage

Ancestor cults

Initiations including secret societies

Related Ceremonies

Masks can be used for different ceremonies often having multiple purposes. The size and style of masks are diverse, depicting animals, human faces and more abstract styles in sizes from a

few centimetres to 4.5 metres in the case of the Dogon Iminana ( mother mask ). With only a few exceptions the masks are all part of a full costume and not just an isolated piece of decoration..

Segy notes:-

Face coverings

Helmet masks

Headdresses Masks with prominent breasts

Amulets

Insignia of grade

Crowns of bead work

Materials

Wood The major material was wood due to the large forest and range of species available. The choosing of a tree from which to make a mask was not as we might do today, find one and chop it

down. Rather the carver would seek the help of a diviner and undergo a purification ceremony and when the first blow was struck he would drink some of the sap in order to form a

brotherhood with the tree?s spirit. Mask would be carved from one piece of wood with nothing jointed, with some of the masks this created severe technical difficulties when the early

carvers only had simple tools.

Usually green timber was used as this was easier to cut. Certain vvarieties would be used for some special masks, but in general the softer woods were used

Ivory was used by the Warega and Benin. The ivory was the property of the Benin kings (Oba) and they were the only ones to wear ivory as a mark of office. The carving of the Warega was not as refined but has a strong impact.

Brass was used by the Benin, Senufo and Ashanti.

Other Materials

Knitted materials were used as were beadwork, basketry and fabrics.

Additional materials included :- shells, beads, twigs, bark, teeth, hair, beaten or repousse metal, vegetable fibres and skin, to mention a few.

West Africa

The masks of this area are well documented by Ladislas Segy in Masks of Black Africa. His book lists the following areas:-

Guinea-Bissau

Republic of Guinea

Sierra Leone

Mali

Liberia

Ivory Coast Upper

Volta

Ghana

Nigeria Cameroon

Within each of these countries can be found ancient traditions associated with individual tribes displaying common links. The areas associated with some groups cross boundaries. The

names of the different tribes is too extensive to list at the moment.

Equatorial Africa

Congo Zaire Zambia

Similar themes and traditions are found with the masks from this area when compared with those of the Western countries. In the early Fifteenth Century the well established Kongo people had

close contact with the Portuguese and later some converted to Christianity. This has had some influence on the type of festivities and masks. The Kongo dominated various tribes in the area of these the Woyo and Yombe produced notable mask The Ndunga masks of the Woyo were larger than life size and had projecting foreheads large cheeks with small eyes, the surface of these faces was painted with white or brightly coloured asymmetrical designs.

The Western Pende on the Kwilu River in Zaire have two major types of mask. The Minhajl, which represent the ancestors and the Mbuya which represent various village characters such as the

fool, the prostitute, the chief etc. These masks are used in the reinforcement of socialcontrol. The amusing performances are brightened by the triangular faces of the masks with bulging eyes, open mouths containing carved teeth painted in a variety of colours. The more powerful Minganji masks are simpler circular forms made from raffia with tubular eyes and no

other features. All the masks are constructed in secret away from the village.

In the Makenda circumcision ceremony the Mbuya appear from out of the bush and dance in the village square until dusk. As the sky darkens, Minganji, masked dancers, materialise and move

around the village at a distance, helping to develop the sense of awe and unease. In the secret circumcision camp the initiated youths are allowed to handle the mask as they are now fully fledged members of the society.

Many other styles are found in these areas.

East Africa

Tanzania and Mozambique are both home to the Mekonde one of the best know tribe of mask makers in East Africa. The Mekonde masks come in various styles, the southern groups using the helmet

type. The features of these masks are often realistic and are worn with a cloth covering the head of the dancer. Scarification is used. The characters represented are familiar to the local

people:- the old man, the doctor, the young woman and the Arab, some animal masks are found.

Over view

It must be noted that the masks of Africa represent a wealth of forms and designs which have been well collected and catalogued. The total range is by no means represented here. The common connections between the masks and the different groups are obviously strong.

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How Not To Suck

I have a student who is constantly comparing herself to other artists. She berates herself for not having found her own style, yet she constantly tries to sound like other singers because she is insecure about her own sound. She wants so desperately to find her sound and yet is afraid – almost paralyzed by her fears of not being good enough. I know that at her core, she is afraid to be herself – on some level she thinks it’s better to be like someone else, as if there’s security in that. She also tends to work less on her voice than my other students – which is not unusual. Her perfectionism sabotages her all the time. We’re working on it together. The more she surrenders, the quicker she lets go of the heavy chains she doesn’t even know she’s dragging around.

The truth is, today’s music market is so highly competitive that everything you can do to improve your craft and conviction, the better it is for you. If you’re not growing or working hard at it, you have to ask yourself why?… Why don’t you do something about it? Is it because you secretly think you suck – or that somehow getting help will mess with your creativity? Don’t hold yourself back from carving your path and working your craft to the bone!

If you’re like me (obsessed with sounding good), then you want to suck as little as possible.

So here’s my top tips for How Not to Suck:

Train your voice – every day: Training your voice with a good vocal technique program absolutely works – it doesn’t take anything away from your style – it will only improve what you have. I’ve watched hundreds and even thousands of people over 20+ years transform their singing voices. Simply put, I believe in vocal training, not because it’s “good-for-you” like kale is good-for-you. It’s because it works. I just recently raised the bar on vocal training for all of my artists. I gave them an ultimatum. It’s working and their voices are getting really good, much faster. But while technique will make your voice incredibly strong and help you deliver more to your audience, it’s only one part of it. And at the end of the day, the most important piece is the emotion a singer has, their message and how they give their audience a piece of them that makes us love them – not just the vocal instrument.

Study music, learn the language: As a trained musician you have a rich storehouse of tools that enrich your music and songwriting skills. I’ve always been the kind of person that has to know the structure behind things, so I have walked that path from early on. I started at 6 years old reading sheet music. But if you don’t, don’t fret – not everyone is like that. Time and time again, I hear famous artists say they did it without lessons or reading music, and I honor that – whatever works for you. But to hold yourself back because you think it will take away something unique is to possibly limit your music. Get a theory book, take some piano or guitar lessons and learn your chord progressions!

Write the Best Songs You Can: As I often tell my students, “writing great songs takes a lot of practice.” You have to work at it every single day. Study it, read as many songwriting books as you can – push the limits here. Finish as many songs as you can – don’t try to make every song great… songs are snapshots. The important thing is to finish them. It’s easy to start songs, you have to learn how to finish them! It’s a large part of the craft. Try co-writing; 2 or 3 writers are better than one – and be sure to work with writers who are better than you, because you will learn from them. The biggest mistake with songwriting that I see artists make, is not working on their material enough. To breakout as an artist, you need songs that really speak to people. They’ll need to be better than what’s out there. You can’t compare yourself to 2nd or 3rd hits of artists that are already out in the marketplace. They have an audience already. You need to build your audience from your first song on. Co-writing is essential if you want to get somewhere in this business. It’s a great way of networking and getting help with your career. The more people who know about you the better. Meet co-writers at music conferences like the ASAP Expo, Taxi Road Rally, Durango Songwriters Expo, and the Hollywood Reporter Conference among others. You can also meet songwriters through publishers or at open mics and by going out to see music. If you find a writer you like, ask them if they are open to co-writes.

Make the Music You Want to Hear: Period. This is the key to your success, and I don’t mean being indulgent – I mean being smart. When you are ready to record, create a budget, raise money online and don’t skimp on your recordings – do it right. You can’t get anywhere without a well-recorded record, which means:

Record only your best songs – that means your very, very best ones (get feedback from fans to help you choose).

Work with a Producer who has a vision for your music and can help you find your sound (not superimpose their sound on you). The best tip I can offer in regards to this is to find someone who has the sound you are looking for.

Record at a good studio, but spend your bigger dollars on mixing. You’ll need a great mix to get a good footing and to get a leg up out there. If you don’t, your music won’t get placed or get the attention you need.

Get Your Music Out There: Once you have a great product (album or E P), it’s time to do some heavy lifting. Too many D I Y artists put their music out on i Tunes and expect it to hit the big-time. Guess what happens: nothing – big fat zero. That’s because nothing will happen when you don’t do something to make it happen. PR, marketing & promotion are the worker bees of the industry; it’s what makes or breaks today’s artists. The days are over of being discovered. You have to carve your own path. There are many tips to how do to this, but for now, the best tip I can give you is to get connected in the industry by joining a performing rights organization (they pay you royalties) and I absolutely recommend ASAP (I am an ASAP writer and publisher member). You’ll have to have finished copyrighted songs in order to sign up. Register your songs with them and set up a meeting with member services to see what they can do for your career. Things happen by being active inside the industry, not waiting on the outside

Visualize Your Career Succeeding in all the ways you want it to – every day. Science says your subconscious brain follows orders from your conscious brain. Watch what you tell yourself and spend at least 10 minutes every day imagining it working out exactly the way you want it to.

Bonus Tip: The 10,000 Hour Theory.

Training or not? Athlete’s, dancers, or musicians all agree, you have to put in your 10,000 hours until you are home free.

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Internet Dating: What Are You Looking For?

So you’ve decided to start searching for Mr. or Ms. Right online. Good for you! So now what? What should you consider first? Well, first and foremost, decide on what you want to get out of this experience. Do you merely want to find a movie buddy? Or maybe you’re interested in finding someone to date on special occasions such as family gatherings, or a wedding date? Are you looking for a long-term relationship? Maybe you’re interested in “Holy Matrimony”? A boyfriend/girlfriend? A sex buddy? Online dating can be fun and exciting, but before you “jump into the pool” so to speak, it really is a good idea to think about exactly what type of person it is that you’d like to get out of this experience. You want to make sure that the person that you end up with, wants the same things with regard to being in a relationship that you do.

The first secret (and it’s more of a common sense thing than a secret) of online dating would be, “Decide EXACTLY what it is that you want to get out of this experience.” It really will help guide you as you make your way through the online dating maze.

Here’s to happy dating!

Nicolette.

Copyright 2005 Nicolette Arden All Rights Reserved

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Do You Have A Serpentine Belt? What’s That?

Do you have a serpentine belt that drives everything on the front of your engine?

A serpentine belt is the long belt with all the little *notches* on the underside.

It goes around the crankshaft pulley, the power steering pulley, the alternator pulley, the air conditioner pulley, and the water pump pulley.

Whew!

It will probably have an idler and most definitely has a tensioner.

The tensioner does just what it says.

It is what keeps tension on the belt, to keep it tight.

You don’t have to loosen any bolts and pry anything to tighten this belt!

It is a good idea to check this belt often.

It is also a good idea to change it after about two or three years.

After all, if it brakes, or slips and eats all the teeth off, you will be running on the battery.

o The alternator will not work.

o You won’t have power steering.

o The air conditioner will stop cooling (if it’s winter time, who cares?).

But, worst of all, your water pump will stop working!

The engine will heat up so fast you won’t know what’s happening!

Check the belt often.

While you are checking the belt, how about taking a look at the pulleys?

Especially the idler and the tensioner pulley.

o The best way to check these pulleys is to remove the belt and rotate them with your finger.

o If you hear a *roaring* noise, replace it.

o If the pulley has a *roughness* about it as you turn it, replace it.

Ok, so you want to take the belt off and inspect it.

How do you get the thing off?

On the tensioner there is a hole, well, not really a hole, but a square hole.

It will either be a 3/8″ or 1/2″ slot.

Some have a bolt head from 1/2″ to 3/4″.

And then, there are exceptions: as you look at the tensioner you will be able to tell what YOU have.

Put the appropriate tool on the bolt head, or inside the slot, and pull up on the tool.

If that isn’t the proper way, push down. :-)

Either way, you have to get the tensioner to move off the belt so you can take the belt off one of the pulleys.

I usually have better luck removing it from the alternator.

Either way, once you have it off one of the pulleys, you can release the tensioner and then the belt can be removed.

Pay VERY close attention, before you remove the belt, as to the way it is laced around all the pulleys.

It takes less than 5 minutes to remove this belt…but it can take 5 hours to get it back on correctly…make a drawing or study the diagram.

Some, and most, vehicles have a diagram of the belt directions placed somewhere under the hood.

May be on the bottom of the hood, or on one side of the vehicle inner fenders.

Usually it is in a place that makes it almost impossible for you to look at it as you are trying to replace the belt. :-)

If either of the pulleys have to be replaced it’s no big deal.

Just remove the bolt, or bolts, holding them onto the engine.

Replace them the same way.

Now, on the tensioner, there is a little peg on the back side.

Align it with the hole in the block…it’s there so you can get the tensioner back on right.

Replace the belt, and that’s it…nothin’ to it!

Oh, was your diagram lable stuck on up-side-down? :-(

You did a good job, though; and I knew you could. :-)

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Silas: Playing Second Fiddle to Paul

Once, when New York Philharmonic conductor Leonard Bernstein was asked what is the instrument in the orchestra most difficult to play, he answered, “Second fiddle.” How hard it must be to play consistently in the concert master’s shadow! Silas was Paul’s second fiddle throughout the apostle’s second and third missionary journeys.

Silas is an enigmatic biblical figure. He must have been outstanding, for the leaders of Jerusalem appointed him to accompany Paul and Barnabas back to Antioch after the conference on circumcision. Luke (the author of Acts) says he was a prophet, and upon arriving in Antioch, he “said much to encourage and strengthen the brothers” (Acts 15:32).

In Acts 16 – 18, Silas becomes a major character in the drama, joining Paul on his second missionary journey, staying behind in Macedonia to nurture the spiritual babies Paul was forced to leave too soon. After that, Silas mysteriously slips out of sight. Luke never mentions him again in Acts; nor do Paul’s letters after those early years.

Silas must have kept on serving behind the scene, where he probably made a big difference. He resurfaces only once, when Peter remarks, “With the help of Silvanus, whom I regard as a faithful brother, I have written to you…” (1 Peter 5:12). Some scholars believe that it was Silas who gave First Peter its eloquent language. Second Peter has the rough grammar and wording that are more like what we would expect from an unschooled fisherman like Simon Peter.

What would Paul have accomplished without this man Silas? Would all of his “concertos” have been as beautiful, or would they even have occurred at all? It is hard to say. Because Silas was willing to play second fiddle, his contrapuntal harmonies enhanced Paul’s melodies, creating a full-length duet to God’s glory. God, give us more men and women with the humility and dedication of Silas!

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The Importance Of Valentine’s Day

February is coming, and it will bring the day of love with it.

Most of the lovers are already planning for the day.

What gift to give, where to meet, what to do to make the day more romantic than any other day?

Why and how is Valentine’s Day celebrated?

No one quite knows, why it is celebrated, but it surely makes a big difference in life of lovers. This is the most important day for lovers. They all go mad in love on this day,and can think of nothing but how to please their beloved. It is recorded that business of jewelry takes a big jump during February. So does the business of flowers,candies and cards. Every other gift that can be thought of is bought across most of the countries of the world and is sent to the beloved.

What about others?

Valentine’s Day may be the most important day for those in love. What about others? Let us take a look at today’s world. Wars, terrorism, fear, murders, and every other destruction that can disturb a peaceful life is the norm. Open a newspaper, watch news on television or read it on Internet, the disturbing news is getting predominance. It depresses the common person in the world. Isn’t it? What does a common person think of

the future of such a world? Can anyone be optimistic? Can anyone visualize of peace dawning around the world, countries co existing in peace with each other and no ethnic wars being fought anywhere?

What does one look forward to in such a world? I think that most of us have become so numb with disturbances, both man made and natural that we have stopped thinking of future. For a large majority it is “let us try to live peacefully today”.

Valentine’s Day and the world peace -

With so much destruction going around,, shouldn’t one welcome a day, when love reigns supreme? A day, when hatred and destruction takes back seat and one only thinks of love? What if we begin a new way of celebration? Begin sending love messages to our enemies. Begin talking of love and peace and try something that can reduce our conflicts with others? Why keep the day confined to romantic love. Take a step forward and make it a day to make every human being love another. Irrespective of race, nation, religion, etc. Break all the outer barriers and try to touch the heart of all we can? Can this be done? Let us at least think of Valentine’s Day as a day, when all the hatred and enmity is forgotten and it is the song of love that is played around. Is that not a

big contribution of this day? That is why it is so important.

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How to Meet Single Women Using Lottery Cards

Here’s a great way to meet single women in bars and nightclubs. Also, it’s a great ice-breaker and a very unique way to introduce yourself to women. All you need is some blank lottery cards that have not been filled out with the picked lottery numbers and a pen or pencil. Bring them with you when you go to bars and nightclubs to meet single women.

Here’s what you do next. Pick out a hot & sexy beautiful single woman that you are attracted to and approach her. Pull out your lottery card and pen or pencil and say, “Excuse me, but I always ask the prettiest girl in the club to pick my lottery numbers, so can you help me pick some numbers?” It’s very rare that you will be turned down.

The next step will be to give her your business card and say, “Call me next week to see if I won, and if I did I will split the winnings with you. If I didn’t win I will buy you lunch? Does that sound like a fair deal?”

Don’t leave her after she has picked the numbers. Hang around and try and get to know her. You never know what may develop just from using this unique approach. Try it. It works!

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Quotes On True Friendship: Is Your Friend For Real?

Quotes on true friendship help us see the difference between a real friend and someone who’s just pretending to be one.

And while this can be a difficult task (as we’d all like to think our friends are all true), it is equally important that we remove the wool from our eyes lest we get hurt. Read on for these inspirational quotes.

Quote # 1 On True Friendship: “A true friend is someone you can disagree with and still remain friends. For if not, they weren’t true friends in the first place.” – Sandy Ratliff

Disagreement between friends is often a cause for arguments, fights and sometimes even the end of a friendship.

The first two reactions are perfectly normal. Friends do fight, sometimes over the silliest of things. However, these arguments shouldn’t be too often and they shouldn’t last too long either; or else, you might have a problem on your hands.

On the other hand, if a small disagreement ends your friendship, then there is obviously no room for acceptance and forgiveness in your relationship.

Quote # 2 On True Friendship: “Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.” – Oprah Winfrey

When it comes to success in relationships, there’s definitely no better person to ask than Oprah Winfrey. In this revealing quote, she talks about how some people cling to you at the height of your fame and fortune.

These people may be fun to be around with; but when you find yourself with no money and no power, they’ll be the first to leave you behind. If you’re after true friends, look for those who will stay with you, no matter how low you get in life.

Quote # 3 On True Friendship: “A friend is someone who knows what you are saying even if you’re not talking.” – Sarah Bennett

Friends are not telepathic. They can’t read your thoughts or guess what you just had for lunch (unless there’s garlic involved). The best of them, however, come pretty close to it!

As with many other friendship quotes, this one talks about the amazing connection that real friends have with each other. A shared smile, a nod or a wink – these are secret languages of true friends who know each other well enough to understand without words.

Scrutinizing your own friends can be quite tricky, but these quotes on true friendship will help you identify if there are any snakes in your garden. Don’t be fooled by false words and petty flattery. Deep down, you know who your true friends are.

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